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Love Addiction

THE “OF COURSE METHOD”—A Crucial Defensive Technique that Neutralizes Narcissistic Abuse

Ross Rosenberg May 27, 2022

Setting boundaries is an important part of all relationships. It becomes even more important—and potentially life-saving—when you are interacting with a pathological narcissist. Those who are Self-Love Deficient (SLD), which is a new term for codependent, need to learn tools and strategies...

7 Minutes

Love Addiction

Codependency Was Never The Problem!

Ross Rosenberg May 27, 2022

This article will explore the relationship between codependency, attachment trauma, and pathological loneliness and the role that psychotherapy can have to solve this pathological circle. Perhaps not everyone knows that it is possible to think of codependency as a...

12 Minutes

Love Addiction

The New Gaslighting Explanation

Ross Rosenberg May 27, 2022

IT’S EVERYWHERE Gaslighting is simply impossible to comprehend, identify, and permanently eradicate without an accurate understanding of what it is and how it evades detection. Because of its complex nature and apparent invisibility, it secretly lurks in the shadows...

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Love Addiction

DISIDENTIFYING WITH THE GASLIT VOICES IN YOUR HEAD: Neutralizing the Gaslighting Virus

Ross Rosenberg June 3, 2021

By Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC PART 1 (of 4) CONSISE DEFINITION OF GASLIGHTINGDefining GaslightingGaslighting is simply impossible to comprehend, identify, and permanently eradicate without an accurate understanding of what it is and how it evades detection. Because of...

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THE CRUSHING DOUBLE BIND

Ross Rosenberg April 26, 2021 Tagged codependency, ross rosenberg, ross rosenberg articles, self-love deficit disorder

Written by Ross Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC. Self-Love Recovery Institute – President/CEOPsychotherapist, Educator, Author, Expert Witness So many people suffering from Self-Love Deficit Disorder (codependency) dream of what it would be like to experience personal and emotional freedom. Freedom that has...

7 Minutes

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“Induced Conversation” is Narcissist’s Most Potent Weapon

Ross Rosenberg April 16, 2021 Tagged divorcing narcissist, induced conversation, narcissistic abuse, observe don't absorb, ODA, ross rosenberg

The most effective of all the narcissists manipulative strategies is “Induced Conversation.” Especially when breaking down a no-contact initiative or when trying to hoover (suck back into the relationship) the codependent. For codependents to not get sucked back into...

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Observe Don’t Absorb Technique

Ross Rosenberg February 23, 2021 Tagged narcissism, narcissism expert, narcissistic abuse, narcissistic abuse syndrome, observe don't absorb, ross rosenberg

The Observe Don't Absorb Technique allows the SLD to maintain control. I call it Observe Don’t Absorb as I teach my clients to artificially "detach" from the narcissist....

7 Minutes

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Setting Boundaries with Narcissists

Ross Rosenberg January 26, 2021 Tagged boundaries, boundaries with narcissists, codependency, codependency recovery, gaslighting, narcissism, observe don't absorb, ODA, setting boundaries

Boundaries don’t work with narcissists. It is critical to fully understand this simple truth. As you begin to accept this, you can begin the treatment for your codependency and learn to protect yourself. Avoid the Wrestling Ring One of...

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Codependency Types

Ross Rosenberg January 12, 2021 Tagged Codependency catagories, codependency cure, codependency expert, codependency treatment, codependency types, ross rosenberg

The creation of these codependency types help people who normally are in denial about their codependency/SLDD to see themselves in a specific diagnostic “light.” It is impossible to heal codependency/SLDD if you don’t know what it is and how it...

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How Do I Know If a Therapist is Right For Me? 10 Signs.

Ross Rosenberg December 3, 2020 Tagged codependency counseling, codependency psychotherapists, codependency psychotherapy, psychotherapy, ross rosenberg, therapy for trauma

Almost half of all Americans will suffer from mental illness at some point in their life. Finding a good therapist can be a lifeline in times of need and it could be one of the most important, personal decisions...