When Selfish Is Actually Self-Love.

  WHEN “SELFISH” IS REALLY GOOD It is GOOD for SLD’s (Self-Love Deficients or codependents) to be selfish. It is like learning to ride a bike. Doing something for yourself and not caring what people think is a dangerous proposition.  “Selfish,” therefore is good. The problem is the voices in your head have been lying […]

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Pseudo Narcissism / Kid in a Candy Store Phenomenon

  Pseudo Narcissism / Kid in a Candy Store Phenomenon Ross Rosenberg Through SLDD recovery and the attainment of Self-Love Abundance, the SLA (Self-Love Abundant) is finally allowed and free to manifest the version of themselves – the person who they always should have been, but never knew existed.  A fitting analogy is a “kid […]

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Codependency Categories: Active, Passive and Anorexic Codependents

Codependency Categories: Active, Passive & Anorexic Codependents Excerpts from Ross  Rosenberg’s book, The Human Magnet Syndrome: Why We Love  People Who  Hurt Us. Active and Passive Codependency As a direct result of the codependents questioning themselves about being a narcissist, I categorized codependency into two sub-types: passive and active.  Although all codependents are habitually and instinctively attracted […]

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Nine Stage Recovery Model for Self-Love Deficit Disorder (Codependency). Ross Rosenberg’s “The Codependency Cure”

This  is the model that I  will be writing about in my upcoming book, The Codependency Cure: Recovering from Self-Love Deficit Disorder. Stage 1: Hitting Bottom (Introducing Hope) Stage 2: Human Magnet Syndrome Education: Breaking Free from the “Dance” Stage 3: Withdrawing from SLDD Addiction: Battling Pathological Loneliness Stage 4: Setting Boundaries in A Hostile […]

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The Eight Stage Self-Love Deficit Disorder (Codependency) Treatment Model. Rosenberg Codendency & Narcissism Expert

This  is the model that I  will be writing about in my upcoming book, The Codependency Cure: Recovering from Self-Love Deficit Disorder.     Stage 1: Hitting Bottom (Introducing Hope) Stage 2: Human Magnet Syndrome Education: Breaking Free from the “Dance” Stage 3: Withdrawing from SLDD Addiction: Battling Pathological Loneliness Stage 4: Setting Boundaries in […]

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The Six Stages of Self-Love Deficit Disorder (Codependency) Recovery

This is an updated version of the Five Stage Model on the same subject.  The Six Stages of Self-Love Deficit Disorder (codependency) Recovery will be an organizing construct/paradigm in my upcoming book, The Codependency Cure: Recovering from Self-Love Deficit Disorder. Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, CSAT © 2016 Clinical Care Consultants Owner Advanced Clinical Trainers Owner […]

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Narcissists Do Not Like Psychotherapy

  Narcissists Do Not Like Therapy NPD’s, in or out of therapy, frequently deny personal responsibility when blamed for a problem. A person diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) resists seeking psychotherapy. The NPD’s tendency to blame others and deny responsibility for their mistakes, misdeeds and/or problems, inhibits the experience of cognitive dissonance or the […]

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It’s Official! 2/7 is Self-Love Celebration Day

It’s Official! Self-Love Celebration Day is on February 7th, precisely one week before Valentines day. If it is true that you can’t love someone else unless you love yourself, then this holiday is the natural precursor of Valentine’s Day. Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, CSAT © 2016 Clinical Care Consultants Owner Advanced Clinical Trainers Owner […]

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