Gaslighting & Codependency

Gaslighting is a brainwashing strategy perpetrated by highly manipulative and completely or partially sociopathic narcissists who live secretly and undetected in our society. Like child molesters, gaslighters can “smell” prey, who are vulnerable to believing in their false altruism, affection, and promises of protection. Gaslighting occurs when the gaslighter systematically manipulates the environment so their […]

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Vitamin L (Love) Deficiency

Vitamin L (Love) Deficiency My Vitamin L(ove) Deficiency idea further illustrates the impact of that neglect and deprivation, or attachment trauma, on an adult’s future mental and physical health. This awareness represents the sum of the nurturing (LRC) children receive from healthy parents during their formative years. When parents unconditionally give Vitamin L, children develop […]

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Children and the Narcissistic Parent

“For a child to avoid severe attachment trauma, they need to be adept at a form of psychological gymnastics. This requires suppressing instinctual and reflexive emotional reactions such as frustration, anger, and disappointment while reacting in a way that makes the parent feel good about themselves. The child who succeeds at modifying their emotional reactions […]

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Typical Codependency Traits

  Available Now! The Human Magnet Syndrome: The Codependent Narcissist Trap click here to buy your copy today!   “In writing the Human Magnet Syndrome books, the overriding goal was to provide explanatory and theoretical information about codependency, pathological narcissism and their dysfunctional relationship “dance.” Thousands of people have asked me to write about codependency […]

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The Dance Metaphor – Codependent and Narcissist

To date, the words “dance” and “dancing” are the most significant and life-changing metaphor I have created. It explains the automatic and repeated attraction patterns occurring between codependent and narcissistic romantic partners. This simplistic but profound metaphor, eventually inspired the creation of a 6-hour professional training, which would be the backbone for the first edition […]

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Passing The Codependency Baton – How Codependency & Narcissism Moves Forward Generationally

TO WATCH THE VIDEO: CLICK HERE This is the first of a series of ten schedule videos that will be posted weekly that will highlight sections of my new book, “The Human Magnet Syndrome: The Codependent Narcissist Trap.” This video introduces Chapter 1: “Passing the Codependency Baton.” More specifically, it talks about the virus like […]

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