On Becoming (On Self-Love Recovery)

ON BECOMING As you move forward in self-love recovery, you will discover self-love in small, gradual steps forward. You are the accumulation of your new self. You are the becoming of self-love abundance. Ross Rosenberg, 2017 www.SelfLoveRecovery.com        

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When Selfish Is Actually Self-Love.

  WHEN “SELFISH” IS REALLY GOOD It is GOOD for SLD’s (Self-Love Deficients or codependents) to be selfish. It is like learning to ride a bike. Doing something for yourself and not caring what people think is a dangerous proposition.  “Selfish,” therefore is good. The problem is the voices in your head have been lying […]

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Love Yourself Like You Always Wanted Others to Love You. Self-Love Abundance & The Codependency Cure

“Achieving Self-Love Abundance (SLA) requires you to treat yourself like you long for others to treat you. SLA mandates that you love yourself unconditionally, like you were not, for far too long in your life. Its time to create a best friend in yourself.”   (c) Ross Rosenberg, 2016 For more information about Self-Love Deficit […]

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Nine Stage Recovery Model for Self-Love Deficit Disorder (Codependency). Ross Rosenberg’s “The Codependency Cure”

This  is the model that I  will be writing about in my upcoming book, The Codependency Cure: Recovering from Self-Love Deficit Disorder. Stage 1: Hitting Bottom (Introducing Hope) Stage 2: Human Magnet Syndrome Education: Breaking Free from the “Dance” Stage 3: Withdrawing from SLDD Addiction: Battling Pathological Loneliness Stage 4: Setting Boundaries in A Hostile […]

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SMILING SKELETONS POEM by Ross Rosenberg. Healing from Childhood Trauma. Letting Go of the Past.

  This poem reflects a latter portion of a healing process that many codependents, or those with Self-Love Deficit Disorder, choose to take. It illustrates the very important psychological milestone when a Codependent or SLD (Self-Love Deficient) is ready to face-down their consciously forgotten childhood trauma (repressed memories),  in order to accept the sad and […]

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The Eight Stage Self-Love Deficit Disorder (Codependency) Treatment Model. Rosenberg Codendency & Narcissism Expert

This  is the model that I  will be writing about in my upcoming book, The Codependency Cure: Recovering from Self-Love Deficit Disorder.     Stage 1: Hitting Bottom (Introducing Hope) Stage 2: Human Magnet Syndrome Education: Breaking Free from the “Dance” Stage 3: Withdrawing from SLDD Addiction: Battling Pathological Loneliness Stage 4: Setting Boundaries in […]

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DON’T USE MY BOOK TO FIGHT A NARCISSIST! You Will Lose, I Promise.

  DON’T USE MY BOOK TO FIGHT YOUR NARCISSIST!  You Will Lose, I Promise.  Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, CSAT I am so grateful to the many people who have told me that my book was life-changing.  Having such a positive impact on the human condition is my teenager “gonna change the world” dream come […]

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Poem: On Becoming a Rose: The Journey to Self-Love

ON BECOMING A ROSE: THE JOURNEY TO SELF-LOVE  Inspired by Anaïs Nin.  “And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom” Breaking through to self-love is the most difficult journey for paralyzed and anxious rose bud people, whose roots are deeply […]

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The Codependency Cure: How to Recover from Self-Love Deficit Disorder

The Codependency Cure: How to Recover from Self-Love Deficit Disorder Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, CSAT Ross Rosenberg has pioneered 15 principles that help his patients resolve their painful dysfunctional relationships patterns. When a therapist colleague and friend recently asked me to explain what Self-Love Deficit Disorder is and how to treat it—I panicked. Although I […]

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