When Selfish Is Actually Self-Love.

  WHEN “SELFISH” IS REALLY GOOD It is GOOD for SLD’s (Self-Love Deficients or codependents) to be selfish. It is like learning to ride a bike. Doing something for yourself and not caring what people think is a dangerous proposition.  “Selfish,” therefore is good. The problem is the voices in your head have been lying […]

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Codependency Anorexia: Are You Starving Yourself from Love?

Codependency Anorexia is a logical solution for people with Self-Love Deficit Disorder™ (SLDD) who are hopelessly addicted to dangerously attractive narcissists.  As a last-ditch protective strategy, the desperate codependent (SLD™) shuts down their innate and natural impulse to fall in love, thereby rendering them safe, but disassociated relational robots.  Although intimacy starvation provides a sense […]

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Gaslighting Is Everywhere Seminar Graphics

Thes graphics are from my latest “Gaslighting is Everywhere” 4-hour seminar video.  More about the training HERE.   Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, CSAT Clinical Care Consultants Owner Advanced Clinical Trainers Owner Psychotherapist, Author & Professional Trainer Author of The Human Magnet Syndrome Creator of “The Codependency Cure: Recovering from Self-Love Deficit Disorder” seminar (and upcoming book) […]

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Gaslighting Is Everywhere!

For more information  about the webinar, click HERE.   To register for the webinar or to purchase the video click HERE. Gaslighting Is Everywhere! Gaslighting is a brainwashing strategy perpetrated by highly manipulative narcissists who live secretly and undetected in our society.  Like child molesters seeking prey, gaslighters have a keen eye for spotting vulnerable […]

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Pseudo Narcissism / Kid in a Candy Store Phenomenon

  Pseudo Narcissism / Kid in a Candy Store Phenomenon Ross Rosenberg Through SLDD recovery and the attainment of Self-Love Abundance, the SLA (Self-Love Abundant) is finally allowed and free to manifest the version of themselves – the person who they always should have been, but never knew existed.  A fitting analogy is a “kid […]

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Codependency Categories: Active, Passive and Anorexic Codependents

Codependency Categories: Active, Passive & Anorexic Codependents Excerpts from Ross  Rosenberg’s book, The Human Magnet Syndrome: Why We Love  People Who  Hurt Us. Active and Passive Codependency As a direct result of the codependents questioning themselves about being a narcissist, I categorized codependency into two sub-types: passive and active.  Although all codependents are habitually and instinctively attracted […]

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Heaven. A Poem About On Everlasting Impact. By Ross Rosenberg

  HEAVEN The pebble is worn smooth Made small over time A product of a cataclysmic force of nature A fragment of mountainous sheets of rock An accidental offspring of a boulder. But just a very small stone The pebble’s place in our world Is neither understood nor appreciated. But when thrown in a glassy […]

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Did You Vote for An Iceberg. The Danger that Lurks Ahead. The Trump Presidency

DID YOU VOTE FOR AN ICEBERG? Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, CSAT Most, if not all politicians are inherently self-serving, dishonest and moderately to patho- logically narcissistic. Successful ones win elections because they are able to create a praiseworthy image while secretly stowing away and hiding their truer ambitions and secrets. Often, the public is […]

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