YOU CAN RUN, BUT YOU CAN’T HIDE, by Ross Rosenberg
Breaking up, quitting or divorcing, will not, by itself, solve your narcissistic abuse problems. Because the problem is within, not around you, there is no escape. Therefore, when you separate from your harmful narcissist, run far away, but to where can protect that hurt wounded little child inside of you, who knows nothing about being alone and happy at the same time. Without healing the core shame that creates your unbearable loneliness, your apparent victory will last only until your next soulmate’s mask falls off. This is precisely when you will be reminded that there is no running away from the Human Magnet Syndrome.
I wrote this in response to a Facebook friend’s elated comments about breaking up with her harmfull narcissistic boyfriend. The point of the meme is that Self-Love Deficit Disorder (codependency), is not a result from bad choices or habits, but because of deeper unconscious forces that commander your relationship choices. The pyramid graphic underneath the meme demonstrates my theoretical position on the matter, and the basis for most of my “Codependency Cure/Self-Love Deficit Disorder/Self-Love Recovery” material.
SELF-LOVE DEFICIT DISORDER – THE PROBLEM – IS ONLY A SYMPTOM OF DEEPER FORCES
SELF-LOVE ABUNDANCE IS THE “CURE” TO SELF-LOVE DEFICIT DISORDER
©Ross Rosenberg, 2017
The 2nd Edition of the Human Magnet Syndrome, which is completely re-written with over 100 pages of new content will be available on Amazon on 12/30/17 and sold on Amazon and at SelfLoveRecovery.com.
Creator of “The Codependency Cure: Recovering from Self-Love Deficit Disorder” seminar